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I (37M) spent 3 months seeing a girl (33F) who was giving very minimal effort. We would have great chemistry in person but almost nonexistent communication outside. I figured since she would never cancel on me, consistently french kissed me, and would always say she enjoyed seeing me meant she just used texting for logistics.

I’d always travel to see her in the city for dinner dates only while I live in the suburbs, and I’d pay for the dates. Saw this was one sided and asked her about it and she apologized and said she’s a bad texter. She said I have a “je ne sais quoi” and found me “intriguing” to her and she looks forward to our dates. I don’t know how to take being called intriguing lol…

Well, I set a boundary after 1 more date saying that the next time we hang out I’d like her to come to the suburbs since I put in so much effort to see her every time.

Well she ended it immediately. Said I was truly amazing and that’s why she wanted to see how this would go for so long.

As much as I feel like she took advantage of me for attention, I have just as much blame for this situation for not recognizing this and setting boundaries sooner or ending things myself.

Has anyone else experienced this before? This is the first time I’ve seen someone who did this to me.